Free Sex: Living On the Edge
(photo by Maurizio Fornino)
Free Sex
Living On the Edge
By Peter Pony Clement
Most guys jerk of regularly, sometimes once a day or even more. If I have the time, I'm a once daily kind of guy. Sometimes I wish I had more free time to sit around and jerk off as many times as I can, just for the hell of it. A few years ago, I spent a whole afternoon in bed trying to set a record for myself. I think I got up to 10 orgasms in one afternoon, then spent all night recovering. These days I prefer quality over quantity. If I can get one long session in every day or two, I'm all set, thank you.
I did not coin the term "edging." I don’t know where I heard it, but basically what it involves is the practice of "start, stop" masturbation. You bring yourself almost to the point of orgasm, and stop before you cum. Then you start again. Repeat steps one and two until you can’t take it anymore, and the result is a very pent up, and usually intensely pleasurable orgasm.
I have never been a fan of the "quickie" whether it’s sex with myself, or with a partner, and the idea of edging has come up more than a few times in conversation with friends in the last few weeks. A good number of them hadn’t heard of the term, or even the concept, which is surprising, given the results and the limited requirements, aside from time. Not only is it extremely pleasurable, but it also helps you train the muscles in your pelvis, and therefore is a great technique for guys who have issues with premature ejaculation.
For single guys like me with busy schedules, sometimes sex doesn't happen. I am happily celibate a most of the time. I always say that I have a great relationship with myself, and since myself and I have a great relationship, part of that is a healthy and exciting sex life. Going out on the prowl to get laid is not my style. When too much focus is put on finding sex with a partner, we lose out on a sexual gold mine within ourselves.
In some ways, the way we interact with one another in social settings or even—God forbid!—online to get off is very much a form of edging. You go out to bars and events to mingle, to hook up, knowing what you’re getting into. You move on to the next place, chat more people up. You're almost there, and then, for whatever reason, it doesn't work out. You go home alone. But that doesn't stop you from going out the next night and doing it all over again. We spend so much time chasing one another, looking for that final moment of ecstasy, whether it’s physical or emotional. The moment where everything is wonderful and you never want it to end. More often than not, that moment alludes us. But the search continues.
Personally, that type of "searching" is too farfetched for me. Instead I literally take matters into my own hands. What's so scary about solitude? If anything, you are your own best mate, because you know you better than anyone else. Or at least you should.
And if someone you meet at some point fits into your life, maybe it’s time to have a talk with yourself about possibly opening up the relationship between you and you, and letting that person in.
I'm not trying to downplay the idea of getting laid. We all want that, but there are alternatives, and they can be fun and exciting. I am always surprised when a girl tells me she never masturbates. This happens surprisingly often. Are you kidding me? So this applies to girls too. You don't need a partner to have a great sex life.
A helping hand doesn't hurt, but at the end of the day, so much time is wasted on people you don't even know. Live on the edge. Make a date with yourself. It's a simple concept, but you might be surprised just how well the two of you get along.
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